One of our favorite things about Kansas City is the amount of talent here in our local wedding industry! With that talent comes a wide range of services offered, experience, and pricing options. While there are many core factors that determine your final wedding budget – guest count, season, day of the week, area of town, wedding party size, etc. – today we’ll be diving into the KC Wedding Budget Guide to see what a typical Kansas City budget breakdown might look like.

Have you found your Honey and are ready to buzz down the aisle? Congratulations! May the wedding planning journey begin! You might be asking yourself – “Where do I start?” – when it comes to the wedding planning process, as there are numerous factors that go into planning. This includes  the cost, which vendors you want, how many guests you are inviting, which season the wedding will be held in, and the location(s) of wedding related activities. Thankfully – here in Kansas City – we have an abundance of amazing vendors for you to choose from who all range in services, experiences, and pricing options offered to help you have the wedding of your dreams. With such a variety of vendor options available – comes the buzzing stress due to the many price tags. However – the financial planning side of the wedding doesn’t have to be stressful! Join me, Budget Bee LLC, as we dive into the KC Wedding Budget Guide to help you and your partner-to-bee financially prepare for your dream wedding.  Let’s begin!

First things first – we need to change the point of view that financial planning for your wedding means “having your wedding on a budget”. This step is super important and thus ranked #1 on the planning list. Let’s throw that POV so far in the air – just like you are going to throw that beautiful bouquet on your wedding night. The reason is that when you have the mindset of “weddings on a budget” – you are immediately turned away from this idea as this sounds like you are about to have the most boring wedding in town. However – that is actually quite far from the truth! When we switch our point of view from “wedding on a budget” to “I’m financially planning so I can have my dream wedding” – you gain financial freedom.

After we have taken on our new mindset – we need to visualize our wedding budget as a pie graph made up of percentages. This allows you to have a picture of how you are spending your money rather than seeing a list of prices that offers no visual. Traditionally – wedding budget calculators utilize a pre-determined percentage regardless of your lifestyle, goals, and needs. However – we want to take those generic templates and use it as a guide to Taylor it for YOU! Before we dive into category percentages – let’s discuss what type of cost each category would fall under. This is an important step to take as it will help you understand which vendor costs will vary. 

VENDOR CATEGORIES WITH:

FIXED COSTS

  • Wedding Planner or Coordinator
  • Photographer
  • Videographer
  • Entertainment (band, dj, live music)
  • Venue – Tip: some venues offer “off-season” pricing at a discounted rate

VARIED COSTS

  • Florals
  • Stationery/Signage
  • Beauty
  • Catering
  • Bar Service
  • Dessert
  • Attire – Tip: because of the wide variance in price and emotional connection when shopping for your wedding attire, we recommend not including that cost in your total wedding budget.

Now that we are aware of what type of cost each vendor category falls under – we are able to move on to the next step in the KC Wedding Budget Guide. This is where we will be determining  what “type” of wedding you are your partner are looking to have : 

Intimate ($1,000 - $10,000)

Guest counts of 5-20, with a civil ceremony or micro-wedding and small venue or restaurant booking to follow with minimal decor or personal details.

Economic ($15,000 - $35,000)

Guest counts of 25-150, where many of the services are self-provided or self-managed including beauty, bar service, dessert, catering, entertainment, and stationery/signage.

Standard ($35,000 - $60,000)

Guest counts of 100-200, hosted at a wedding venue and with fewer self-provided categories, leaning into vendor skills and expertise. 

Premium ($60,000 - $100,000)

Guest counts of 150+, hosted at a wedding venue with the majority of categories booked by a professional wedding vendor. 

Luxury ($100,000+)

Guest counts of 150+ hosted at a luxury wedding venue with all categories booked by a professional, best-in-class wedding vendor highlighting many custom specialty details and designs.

On average, for a standard wedding in Kansas City with 150 guests, you can expect to allocate $35,000 for your wedding budget. Here’s a look at how that budget could possibly break down to each vendor type.

BREAKDOWN OF THE STANDARD KC WEDDING BUDGET:

  • Venue – $8,000 or 23%
  • Coordinator – $1,600 or 4%
  • Photographer – $4,000 or 11%
  • Catering – $6,000 or 17%
  • Dessert – $1,000 or 3%
  • Bar Service – $3,000 or 9%
  • Entertainment/DJ – $3,000 or 9%
  • Florals – $3,000 or 9%
  • Beauty (bride only) – $700 or 2%
  • Officiant – $500 or 1%
  • Misc. – $3,000 or 9%
    • Based on priority could be videography, favors, signage, invitations, postage, wedding party hair and makeup, transportation, place settings and china/rental upgrades.
  • Fluff Fund – $1,200 or 3%
    • Always leave spare money in the budget for incidentals, or to allow you to accept a quote for one of your wedding priorities and/or to cover wedding day vendor gratuity.

While financial planning for your dream wedding can be planned to a T – there are some incidences that could arise and hinder your wedding budget. Let’s discuss these real quick : 

Number of wedding party members affects:

  • Beauty – hair and makeup services, plus additional artists for a larger group
  • Attire – if covering costs for your wedding party
  • Gifting 
  • Getting Ready space 
  • Transportation – larger shuttle options to fit the entire group

Number of wedding guests affects:

  • Save the Dates + Postage
  • Invitations + Postage
  • Catering + Service Staff
  • Dessert
  • Alcohol + Bar Service
  • Décor – tables, chairs, tablecloths, flowers and candles for each added guest table
  • Rentals – chargers, dinnerware, flatware, glassware, linens, and napkins

In addition to your wedding categories – you also need to account for the following :

Gratuities, Taxes, Service Fees & Vendor Meals

  • Ensure you are reading the fine print of your vendor contracts to have a clear understanding of what the final balance will be for services. For example -while a caterer has a per-plate meal cost, there will also be service fees and tax included on the full event quote.
  • Check to see if the proposal includes a line item for gratuity, or if you’ll need to include that in your total category allocation. This is most common on food and beverage proposals. While some proposals don’t include a gratuity clause – you may want to show your appreciation anyway and should budget appropriately to do so on or after the wedding day.
  • Everyone needs fuel to make it through the long wedding day – including you and your vendors. Don’t forget to include both parties in the proposed catering headcount.

Vendor Trials & Tastings

  • Always be prepared for trial and tasting charges! It is common that any vendor providing a fixed cost good will charge for this preview service. The three most common categories for this are catering, dessert, and beauty.

Backup Plan

  • Ensure that you have a Plan B for your wedding and financials in case an unforeseen incident occurs. For example – If  any element of your wedding is to take place outdoors – from the ceremony to photos, cocktail hour to reception – you need to walk through the Plan B alternatives and what costs you can expect to keep your wedding celebration intact. Tents can come with a wide range of expenses including rental, sidewalls, installation fees, heating/cooling, and flooring. 

Finally – the last step to financially plan for your wedding is to contact Budget Bee LLC. Where our hive is accredited and certified in financial planning for your wedding day and bee-yond. Unlike local financial planners – that want to separate themselves from financial planning and wedding planning – our hive wants to be included in your wedding planning process! By signing up with Budget Bee LLC –  we  will work with you on obtaining your vendor quotes, creating your Taylor-Made financial plan, educating you on budget-friendly alternatives, and maximizing your income to have your dream wedding and bee-yond. 

Let’s get buzzing with excitement for financial planning! 

Enjoy the KC Wedding Budget Guide? Ready to start budgeting yourself? Reach out to Budget Bee LLC!